I like this guy who liked me up until a friend of mine said something to him and made me look obsessive. I didn't want her to say anything to him. He claims not to like me anymore, but flirts with me A LOT.

When I see him again, Im debating as to weather or not I should just be spontaneous, quit analyzing things and just kiss him.


Would I come off too strong if I were to do that? And if not, How should I do it?

Don't kiss him... Tell him you like him and ask him to go out to dinner with you on a date... You will get a real answer that way... A kiss may be taken as intrusive... A kiss might also make you look like you won't take no for an answer...

I would say you would be better just to strick up a convo' with the guy and take things from there!

Talk to him direct and tell your friend to stay out of your business.

I have told him before, and he kind of just smiles. My friend opened her mouth and pushed for a "yes" answer without me knowing which screwed it up just a tad. Ive over-analyzed this ever since she said something to him, which made us more distant, but something tells me he still kind of does. I mean, I wouldn't just go up to him and just lay one on him, but see what happens through the day, and when the time is right, just go for it.

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Originally Posted by italiangirlie89

Ive over-analyzed this ever since she said something to him, which made us more distant, but something tells me he still kinda does. I mean, i wouldnt just go up to him and just lay one on him, but see what happens through the day, and when the time is right, just go for it.

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Stop analyzing things and be yourself ;) It could be that this dude is just very, very shy or thinks your friend was stringing him along, that's why its better for you to do the talking.

If you are set on kissing him... After a good/fun day together, just walk up to him from behind and put your arms around him for 2 seconds and give him a sweet peck on the cheek and then walk away like nothing happened... See what his response is...

People like it when someone likes them, and he prob does't want you to stop.. so he might be flirting w. you for that type of reason.. try talking to another guy.. and making him think you like him see what happens

Well I know this, if I liked a girl and she did that I would really like that girl.

If I did not like that girl then I would be turned off... probably turned off... possibly turned off... very likely turned off by that.

If you know he likes you, just do it.