My ex boyfriend and I had such a horrible relationship at times. But it was so great at times and so I took the good with the bad. But we broke up and things were literally horrible. He thought I had cheated on him, he thought I had sex with his best friend, everything went so bad and rumors were flyinng. He was so abusive to me, he called me names insulted me, tihngs I thought he would NEVER do. So I decided to move away to my grandmas house who lives in a different state. The day before I left he told me he would wait for me no matter what, but when I moved he told me he had moved on and he was over me..? He has a new girlfried now but just two weeks ago he told me he was still in love with me.. what is going on here... I am so confused. And now that I'm coming back home, I'm bound to see him again. Do you think he still loves me? Or should I avoid him forever. He told me not to speak to him ever again for no reason.

From what you've told us, he seems to fit the description of an abuser to a T. Whether he still loves you, I would advise you to avoid him.

DO NOT come back with him!! He is playing with you, a person who loves you is a person who is with you no matter the doubts, more than that,he doesn't doubt!! I remember I had a boyfriend like he! that type just play with you, because they know you love them.

You deserve someone better! And you will find him, trust me