I've been a relationship with my boyfriend for 8 years. I love him so much. But, I don't accept the fact he moved out on me because I had a bad temper, and I didn't pay him any attention. I show my love in a different way. I'm so caught up in worrying about other people, my kids, and household. That I lost sight of myself. There's no me time. I'm always taking responsibility for everything. And I felt I drove him away. My boyfriend move packed his things and move out. There was sighs and he was trying to let me know but I didn't pay any attention. My boyfriend wants to work things out from a distance. How can you work things out from a distance? I accused him of cheating on me, because of how he handle the situation of moving out. He know my personality already? So what do you think? Break-up or work it out?

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Originally Posted by tnnlltownsend

i've been a relationship with my boyfriend for 8 years. i love him so much. my boyfriend wants to work things out from a distance.

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There is your answer right there. You love him and he wants to try and work this out.

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Originally Posted by tnnlltownsend

i'm so caught up in worrying about other people, my kids, and household. that i lost sight of myself. there's no me time. i'm always taking responsibility for everything.

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This sounds like a major part of the problem. You feel like everything is YOUR responsibility. That is a terrible burden on you. How did you get to feel this way? Does he help with your responsibilities? If not, you may be taking your anger and frustration out on him.

One question I want to ask is... do you have expectations of him?

Not putting the blame on you but I'm trying to get to the bottom of the situation.