Does this girl want to be friends or more?
Okay, I recently notice that an old co-worker of mine had become single. So I e-mailed her and asked if she wanted to hang out. I obviously had always been attracted to her but had been in a relationship when we worked together. She accepted and went out to the horse races, yeah believe it or not, she liked it. We didn't gamble though, I thought it would be a bit too much since she had never gone to the races before. While we were there we had what I believed to be great conversation and she responded with a lot of laughter to my jokes. Also there was some light touching and bumping which I think can be seen as a sign except the races get exciting so it could have been her getting caught up in the moment. Anyway, on the drive home she started asking me about things we could do in the future which I also imagine to be a sign. This took place last Saturday.
I called her Monday and made plans too do a little frisbee on Tuesday it was supposed to be a georgous day, which it was. It went pretty good, except we had to cut it short due because she had a late job interview. We still played for about an hour which is a decent time playing frisbee. Again we joked around with a little friendly banter on how bad we were. Again maybe a sign. As it was time to quit we walked to my car, we were at her house, she just went out blunt and asked if I wanted to play again wendsday since it was supposed to be nice again (I live in Washington so it doesn't happen much), and that way we could go to the high school down the street and play at the stadium and not have to worry about time.
Well today we played frisbee but I was dead tired from a hard day at work. So we didn't play that long. Maybe an hour again. I walked her home and at the door she asked if I wanted to get together for the same on Monday, she is going to the mountain during the weekend and I'm busy Thursday. We'll prob. Do frisbee or driving range etc... depends on the weather we are both active and fitness enthusiast so it's what we like to do I guess.
My question is... There are obvious signs there such as: the laughing at basically anything remotely funny and the touching at the track. Then the talking about doing things in the future. Also her jumping out and asking me when I want to get together again, that's got to be good right? I'm real bad, my last relationship stemmed from high school and lasted along time, so I don't really know what to look for with out some girls friend whispering in my ear that this person likes me. So does this girl? Or does she like the company? Perhaps both since she just got out of a relationship? I haven't even asked her about it? She hasn't mentioned it really either? Does that matter. Any advice.
-kkkkyyylle
