The EX does think of you after the break. You can win back
Hi ,
I thought id drop in and hoping I can just help out one poor bloke or girl on here who gets dumped if they care to listen.
Firstly mentioned many time as soon as you are put on a break take it as exactly that a break beteryet take it as its over! Break up. This does not leave you in limbo and this sets the person dumping you straight!!
Nowwhat people fail to realise when there isa break in therelationship everyone seems to think the person who dumped you doesn't care, well a lot of the times maybe they have realised before they broke itoff that they wernt tha into you and they found someone else. But in some situations maybe they just drift out of love.
The person who dumps you they go away and well maybe for a couple of days they are OK but yes it does hit them they no longer have you as a part of there life. Maybe they will miss you and come back maybe they won't. But think of it like this if you are hanging around what chance are you giving your dumper to think of you and think of all the good times you guys spent together...
If they don't return you will already be slowly recovering. But that is not what peple want to hear on here they want to here how ti get them back and tat is naturally what everyone almost wants a quick fix.
Well this is possible but giveyourself every opportunity don't talk to the ex because yes they are tinking of you they will have memories eveyone does. They will move on more quick but that is because you thedumee is holding false hope. They wanted to break up so do that straight away.
I ave also heardmany times , if you wan you can contact them in a month and see what they are doing, well so many people make excses for the dumpersfor why they may not be calling like saying they want and love me but don't want to call back cause maybe they don't think I want them.
Well ifthey really want you they will call. Listen here when your breakup occurs you must finish it with well if that's what you want then there's not much I can do about it, you're the one who wants this so you an have your break up I'm not putting up with that.
Its simple they wantedthe breakthat is what you must give them to give yourself every opportunity, this is the hardest thing to do cause they will throw you smeall lifelines in the hope of holding onto you. Wal straight away sit down and cry and say to yourself I don't want to be withsomonewhodoes not want to be with me and until they do I won't worry about it.
He simple fact is if they don't want you not much you can do about t although 99% of people will try something thinking they can get them back.
But in the end how good would it be if you do nothing walk away from the relationship upset but telling yourself they didn't want me and then 3 weeks later they call saying I miss you and have made a mistake...
This is why you walk away and remenmber one thing your ex does think of you on those lonely nights. So there is ope for you yet but don't hold onto that give yourself the best chance and leave immediately.
My final point is this, if you dumped someone sit back andthink what would make you take them back. Probably nothing. That's because you are thinking right now if I dumpedsomeone why would you do that because you don't really want them. But you know what when you know longer have them that is when you may realise that they are the one that you want!!
So leave it be straight away and I hope someone tries this and they may win themback.
T Have done this 8 months ago I got dumpedfor two weeks I went straight to OK gave her some clothes and said take care of yourself.
She rang two weeks later and wanted to try aain and said how much she had been missing me. Well she dumpedme 6 months later and hats over.So you must also realise that if you get dumped once it probably won't work unless you fiure out what you need to do to keep it to work.
But this will definitely give you the best chance I've done it before...
