I'll try to keep this brief, but it's been a year, so here goes...
I met this guy just over a year ago at a brewfest. I was superdrunk and kissed him. He called me a mess of times afterwards and we ended up meeting up. The first -- only -- time ever, I had sex on the first date. (I'm 34.) I saw him twice after that and then he blew me off. But after a few weeks he started calling again, and I liked his persistence and I did like spending time with him, so after a while I started taking his calls and we started seeing each other again, just a few times a month. In February it heated up to most weekends, even 2 or 3 times a weekend. I've met his friends, but he doesn't seem interested in mine. We've never been out on a date, although he doesn't like to go out much so I don't take it that personally. I just feel sad that he doesn't seem to want to know me any better than he does, my friends, my family, my interests, my job. We have nothing in common -- it's totally opposites attract on the surface. I'm surprised it's lasted this long. But since it has, and he really seems to like me, I feel like I should ask him why he doesn't care, why he didn't get me anything for my birthday last week, why he doesn't want to know any more about me. If it was just sex, couldn't he just be having sex with anyone? (He's very good looking.) He's 25. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated because I feel a nagging feeling that I should just call it off.
PS I've been dating other guys this whole time, just first dates, boring guys. He says he hasn't seen anyone since November and seems either disinterested or jealous at different times about my dating. I wish we were in a category thenn I'd know what to do with it!
