I have read women don't like "nice guys", but that being "kind" is OK.

Can someone give me a few examples of some situations (think of a good example-situation) and tell me what would a "nice" guy do, and what would a "kind" guy do?

I'm a high school English teacher and I ask kids not to use nice at the beginning of the year. I say if I die this year and you guys say I was nice, I will rise from the grave and do something horrifying. Nice is boring, meaningless and lame. Someone who is kind is sensitive and pays attention to another person's needs in terms of comfort, be it temperature, hunger, emotional state. Someone who is paying attention and acting to help people. I'd like to meet that guy!

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Originally Posted by turtlegirl

Someone who is kind is sensitive and pays attention to another person's needs in terms of comfort, be it temperature, hunger, emotional state. Someone who is paying attention and acting to help people.

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Thanks for your reply. If that is considered "kind", then what is considered "nice" (as in "too kind"?)?

Nice - is an KISSER, seeks approval, buys effections, is needy-clingy, manipulative, tries to CONVINCE a gal to like him

Kind is to do things because YOU want to and do not expect anything in return.

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Originally Posted by Wildcat21

Nice - is an KISSER, seeks aproval, buys effections, is needy-clingy, manipulative, trys to CONVINCE a gal to like him

Kind is to do things because YOU want to and do not expect anything in return.

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Excellent, excellent!

Thanks a lot... things are much clearer now.

Nice - gets walked all over and doesn't even know it.

"Nice" men do things out of insecurity, a need to be liked. "Kind" men do things out of compassion and understanding, and the kindness is inherent -- they'd do the same for anybody in need, not just a hot woman.

That was outstanding. Yes.

I swear I hate that word, I've been called nice by too many girls too many damnnn times. And with the girl I'm dating now, I'm trying not to be nice, but for someone reasons I find myself falling back into the nice guy thing and I know deep down if I keep it up, I'm probably going to lose her

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