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  • Jun 14, 2005, 01:57 PM
    CroCivic91
    Kind vs Nice
    I have read women don't like "nice guys", but that being "kind" is OK.

    Can someone give me a few examples of some situations (think of a good example-situation) and tell me what would a "nice" guy do, and what would a "kind" guy do?
  • Jun 14, 2005, 07:35 PM
    turtlegirl
    NICE yak
    I'm a high school English teacher and I ask kids not to use nice at the beginning of the year. I say if I die this year and you guys say I was nice, I will rise from the grave and do something horrifying. Nice is boring, meaningless and lame. Someone who is kind is sensitive and pays attention to another person's needs in terms of comfort, be it temperature, hunger, emotional state. Someone who is paying attention and acting to help people. I'd like to meet that guy!
  • Jun 14, 2005, 11:14 PM
    CroCivic91
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by turtlegirl
    Someone who is kind is sensitive and pays attention to another person's needs in terms of comfort, be it temperature, hunger, emotional state. Someone who is paying attention and acting to help people.

    Thanks for your reply. If that is considered "kind", then what is considered "nice" (as in "too kind"?)?
  • Jun 15, 2005, 12:12 PM
    Wildcat21
    Nice - is an KISSER, seeks approval, buys effections, is needy-clingy, manipulative, tries to CONVINCE a gal to like him

    Kind is to do things because YOU want to and do not expect anything in return.
  • Jun 15, 2005, 02:06 PM
    CroCivic91
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wildcat21
    Nice - is an KISSER, seeks aproval, buys effections, is needy-clingy, manipulative, trys to CONVINCE a gal to like him

    Kind is to do things because YOU want to and do not expect anything in return.

    Excellent, excellent!

    Thanks a lot... things are much clearer now.
  • Jun 16, 2005, 12:36 PM
    Wildcat21
    Nice - gets walked all over and doesn't even know it.
  • Jun 21, 2005, 07:51 AM
    toonking
    Yup
    "Nice" men do things out of insecurity, a need to be liked. "Kind" men do things out of compassion and understanding, and the kindness is inherent -- they'd do the same for anybody in need, not just a hot woman.
  • Jun 21, 2005, 08:20 AM
    Wildcat21
    That was outstanding. Yes.
  • Jun 22, 2005, 09:53 AM
    PeterJohn
    Nice... I hate that word
    I swear I hate that word, I've been called nice by too many girls too many damnnn times. And with the girl I'm dating now, I'm trying not to be nice, but for someone reasons I find myself falling back into the nice guy thing and I know deep down if I keep it up, I'm probably going to lose her
  • Jun 22, 2005, 10:37 AM
    Wildcat21
    PeterJohn my man,

    Do yourself a LARGE favor and learn about 'nice guys'.

    PLEASE, if you can, buy David Deangelos book at:

    www.doubleyourdating.com


    AND sign up for his e-mail. He is the guru.


    Goto: www.askmen.com- READ ALL the dating articles. ALL!


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    Go to www.realtionships.blog-city.com - learn about WHY it's bad for business to be an -kissing nice guy.

    Get this part of your life in order. Woman HATE -kissers.

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