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  • Jun 13, 2005, 05:36 PM
    mklen
    Male attributes
    Is there a way for someone to develop male attributes that were supposed to be passed on to him by his father. But since his father didn't raise him, he didn't acquire those traits.

    Thanks
  • Jun 13, 2005, 07:00 PM
    ArchanicDemise
    Attrb
    Personal qualities are never automatically passed on. They just happen you don't normally just chose how you want to be, u just are who u are.
    If you want to become a little more like your father then I would ask your mother what he was like type of person he is, remember the more specific questions you ask the more you can learn.
    But remember not every quality is a good one to have.
  • Jun 14, 2005, 12:57 PM
    Wildcat21
    I think he is looking more to become a man. Wussed out by being raised by his mother (sorry - but true)

    Check out these sites and learn:

    www.askmen.com - PLEASE read all the dating and love articles ALL!!

    www.sosuave.com - read EVERY article. EVERY ARTICLE.

    www.doubleyourdating.com - at least get the e-mail as well DD is my Quam.

    I have a feeling he was femenized by his mother?
  • Jun 14, 2005, 02:01 PM
    DAVE231
    I learned on my own to be a caring and honest man. My father wasn't there for me but I became a gentleman on my own by living a life of love, loyalty, trust and acceptance. Be a simple kind of man with a heart filled with humanity, and as you grow you will find the true meaning of being masculine.
  • Jul 11, 2005, 11:38 AM
    mklen
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wildcat21
    I think he is looking more to become a man. Wussed out by being raised by his mother (sorry - but true)

    Check out these sites and learn:

    www.askmen.com - PLEASE read all the dating and love articles ALL!!!

    www.sosuave.com - read EVERY article. EVERY ARTICLE.

    www.doubleyourdating.com - at least get the e-mail as well DD is my Quam.

    I have a feeling he was femenized by his mother?

    Yes I was feminized :). But I still like girls ;).

    You got it right. I am a wuss boy. I have referred also to http://www.masf.com and http://www.pickupguide.com. My problem is not only getting women, but having the right attitude of a man: confidence, drive, assertiveness, persistence, not supplicating, acting nice but not too nice, etc. Its not so much about attributes of my father, but having the general qualities of a man that I listed in the previous sentence. These qualities are typically passed from a father to a son; if he is raised properly by his father. Is there any way I can achieve those qualities?
  • Jul 11, 2005, 07:49 PM
    Wildcat21
    It's not even being feminized - it's just thinking you need to put woman on pedestal - always seek her approval - NEVER standing up to her, meaning back bone - not letting her always get her hway and throW fits - not buying her fancy dinners and buying her apprval all the time - being too nice -

    AND A KEY: Trying GTO CONVINCE HER TO LIKE YOU.

    SHARING HOW YOU FEEL TOO SOON - BIG MISTAKE - BIG!!

    NOT UNDERTADNING HOW ATTRACTION WORKS IN WOMAN - NOT UNDERSTADNING WOMAN AND HOW THE YTHINK AND WORK.

    GIVING AWAY ALL YOU POWER AND HAVING HER LEAD. YUCK!! THEY ARE REPULSED BY THAT.

    SAYING NO! TO HER!! KEY - SAY NO SOMETIMES -SHE'LL LOVE YOU FOR IT!!
  • Jul 12, 2005, 07:34 AM
    BattleAngel14745
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  • Jul 12, 2005, 04:06 PM
    mklen
    My f******* question is related to psychological attributes. There is no way I can get physical attributes, unless my genes were modified in a lab before I was born. Please read my previous post.
  • Jul 12, 2005, 05:31 PM
    packert115
    Thanks for the laugh
    I am not trying to insult you as some may think but ,you need to do a lot of reading and you need to go back to school your question is ridiculous to say the least m I like my father or mother I can cook does that mean I have the attributes of my mother even though I stand when I urinate come on buddy

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