Okay, I'm 15 years old, and I started dating this 19 year old about a week ago. Well we decided to go to the movies with a couple friends yesterday. Well when we went we got really close. I ended up giving him a blow job and stuff, and it was my first time ever doing anything but making out.. I wasn't sure how to do it so I just did it and hoped for the best. Well eventually after that was all over with, he moved to the other side of me and sumhow he ended up on top of me.. we cuddled and stuff but he kept "ajusting himself" or at least I though he was, I mean I'm still a virgin, I didn't know what he was doing so I didn't read into it much.. well he started like thrusting into me, and all the sudden I felt a weird kind of pain down in my vagina for like 10-20 sec, well after the movie he asked me if he got anything in me.. I didn't know what he was talking about, I didn't know what happened, I didn't think we had sex.. but my question is.. I didn't know what was happening and I'm really confused now, did I have sex? Or is there any way of telling weather I've had sex? :confused:

Yea, you did have sex

It sounds like you had sex. What has he said about this? Have you talked to your friends? Could you go to Planned Parenthood or a doctor? By the way, this doesn't sound like a great guy for you to be with.

I'm still upset about this. This happened in the movie theater? He took advantage of you and you didn't even know what was going on! Please go to a doctor. Go to the police? You've been violated.

You had sex grl. If his penis entered your vagina, it's called sex hun. Wait.. I am a bit confused. Did this happen in the movie theaters?
Elke <3 :confused:

Were u naked? In the theater? Umm... if u gave him consent then its sex... but if u didn't... its rape. Guys can be A holes,so they will take advantage of u. its not right. Have u talked to him about it? Did u bleed?
Me** :o

You need to understand dude... you don't know if she meant that to happen. It could've been an accident... or maybe she couldn't stop it. You never know. Maybe she already has the guilt and shame of what happened and your not helping. Its hard for a girl to handle that emotional stress... because it WAS her first time. I am still a virgin, and I am waiting until I am married. She was MOST LIKELY assaulted... so you don't need to put her down like she did something wrong. At least she is asking for help, and not keep doing it... ok?
Thanks,
Me**
Ps. And she Doesn't have to speak to a priest about her problems, if she has a problem she can talk to God herself about it. I am sure if you had a problem, you wouldn't go and tell a preist about it. Gosh! :D

Well, if your a virgin did you bleed or what... but it sounds like you did have sex... sorry

Love
Beenks