I've known I was a lesbian for about a year now, but I still like to "do" guys too. That's a little weird, I know, but anyway. I just broke up with my girlfriend because she didn't care about me or anything at all for that matter. I feel an incredible need to be needed and/or to be flirted with or anything. I met a guy on myspace, I know, typical, don't even say it. He's smart, he's a photographer, he's sexy, and gives me frequent complements. We exchange pics, and sometimes they're not exactly clean. We talk on a different level then all of my other friends. I like him, I like the risk. I feel stressed, and helpless and unwanted. What do I do? What am I doing wrong this time? I need help.

:) I think you are being way, way too hard on yourself! I don't think you have quite figured out your sexuality, you might be bi, lesbian or even straight! The reason I say that is you stated you have known you're a lesbian for about a year and you still like guys which you said was a bit weird, and the way I see it I am straight I have no interest in girls at all, so for me it is and always has been clear, but it is OK if you are not sure. The flirtation you have on Myspace is fine if you are careful and protect yourself from potention harm. You recently become single, so have fun and take some time to get to know yourself. Good luck!

Thanks... I was just worried I was being a slut or something from the pics... Thank you

If you just got out of one relationship, I think you should take some time for yourself, before you jump into something else right away. For now all you see is your needs and wants, and can get in a lot of trouble, because as you know people always put their best foot forward in the beginning, but after a while you start to see that its not as good as it appeared to be ( you only have to look at your last relationship to realise this. ). So before you throw caution to the wind, to scratch an itch, think first, and proceed slowly.

Hello.

There is nothing wrong with being confused about what you want at this point in your life. Because you like both sexes means your still open the excitement each gives you. When you find Mr. or Mrs. right you will know it so relax and take your time.

As for finding a man on My Space, enjoy and have fun, sending some sexy photos (if your both over 18) can be exciting. Take it slow with the personal information because it is cybor space and there are some real nut cases out there but most are great people that don't want to find a person in bars or clubs.

Have Fun
Dennis777