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  • Jun 17, 2007, 06:40 PM
    woodworkerjosh
    Getting someone to see where you are coming from
    What do you do when she says she isn't looking for anything right now?
  • Jun 17, 2007, 07:04 PM
    rockstar567
    Just be patient
  • Jun 17, 2007, 10:24 PM
    huno
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woodworkerjosh
    what do you do when she says she isn't looking for anything right now?

    Usually when you get that response it means she's not interested. Otherwise, she'd take a chance with you.

    That doesn't mean you should give up; they say persistence is a good thing. But you can bet that, for the moment, she's not really into you right now.
  • Jun 19, 2007, 06:40 AM
    margarita_momma
    I believe it means she is not wanting to get into a relationship at the moment. I just came out of a divorce and I have had to tell a guy this that I was dating because he was moving to fast for me. If you are really into her, don't push it and have patience. She will come to you when she is ready.
  • Jun 19, 2007, 07:09 AM
    Dennis777
    Hello.

    That normally means your pushing to hard and fast so back off and let time guid you.
  • Jun 19, 2007, 07:10 AM
    Tuscany
    It means give her a chance to figure her life out. She needs you to step back and let her be for awhile. Be a friend, but don't push for more or you might push her away for good.
  • Jun 19, 2007, 08:07 AM
    kristynn
    It means she isn't looking for anything right now. She's not interested, but don't take it personally although there's always a chance that might be a 'nice' way for her to tell you she's not interested in you.

    Good things happen to those who wait. Be patient and maybe she'll change her mind.
  • Jun 19, 2007, 11:37 AM
    Lotz_of_Questions
    I means she's not interested right now, but could be in the future so keep trying but don't seem to desperate!!

    Good Luck!
  • Jun 19, 2007, 11:42 AM
    DrJ
    No, no, no... a woman is always looking for someone... it just has to be the right someone.

    That's not to say that you are not that someone... but she just may not know it yet. Always focus on bettering yourself. Don't smother her or bother her if she doesn't want to be bothered. And do NOT become her friend. Go live your life and she may see what she is missing.

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