I've been dating this guy for 6 months now. He used to say I love you at least once a week. But he hasn't said it in months.

Well my paranoia starts here... he was driving me home last night... where he says... I should spend some time with my other girlfriends this holidays... and he laughed.

It really hurts me when he says stuff like this... could he be hinting he has other girlfriends?? Or is he trying to make me care more... I have no idea really. Maybe I'm paranoid.

I'm 17 and he's 19!

Thanks!

My husband does this to me when he feels like pushing my buttons. I just laugh it off and act like it doesn't bother me and he usually shuts up after that :) I would say he's probably just messing with you.

Well, I do know most guys won't TELL you if that's what they are going to do. I'm sure it was just a joke.

Do you ever tell him you love him first? Does he not respond? Maybe he thinks the same thing about you, you know? He doesn't have to be the one to say it first all the time.

Try saying it, see what he says. :)

Well.. sometimes guys say things sarcastically or in a joking manner really meaning what they are actually saying but only to some degree to get a reaction out of you.. it could be that he wants to figure out if you would actually care if he went to see other girls or trying to get your attention.. if its been rough for the past months, resulting in him not saying I love you as much, then he could try to be getting some answers.. to see if you guys are still "there" with/for each other.. on the other hand he can be saying these things to get a reaction/annoy you or because he may have been faced with seeing other girls and want to get your reaction of how you would take it.. the only way to fully get an answer is to of course talk it out.. just talk to him and see if you guys are on the same page; at the same point in the relationship.. doesn't have to come out as a serious conversation, just start it as a normal conversation and get into how he's feeling at the moment- his feelings toward you.. don't be paranoid hun.. you have all right to be and all right to think.. but don't think too much into things until you have more proof or else it'll drive you crazy..

Act like you don't care... show that you don't care... he's curious and you can't do notthing about it... what you can do is show him that it doest bother you... play hard to get you seem like your doing everything quit calling him all the time... let him call you...