I have started to see this guy for the past 3 months.
We both like each other.
I just saw him last weeekend.
Hung out with him around 8:30 - 9ish
We always talk 2 each other like every night. But I text him a lot & he like almost never answers back. My friend said that he may be cheating on me with another girl.
I don`t think so cause he said he loves me & we hang out & talk a lot & say we love each other. But I am not sure if I am really in love.
This is one thing he said to me on AIM one night "il never forget u even if u didnt get to talk to me for 3 years" & "even if we dont end up together youll always be in my hear"
"yes this is true love itl last forever". Anyway last Saturday I got grounded for seeing him & hanging out with him because my friends that they saw us doing something so I got in trouble & got all sad. My mom said that we couldn't keep in contact right when she said that my heart dropped like broke into pieces. I couldn't find those pieces to put back together. I don't know what to do. Keep seeing him without my mom knowing or forget about him...

What should I do?


-kt:confused: :confused:

You say that you are not sure if you love him.

I just talked to him last night. He texted saying I love you baby. I called him & talked to him for abour 7 minutes... it was nice. I`m not sure if I should see him or not.. because if I see him then I have 2 sneak out a lot. I really like him... what should I do?

My mom told me he lied. But he lied to come see me. He looked me into my eyes & said baby I love you. But I`m not sure. Because my mom said your never allowed 2 see him again. Maytbe down the road. But I really like him & the only way I can see him is sneak out.

If he truly loves you and you love him then you sneak out to see him and at the same time keep talking things over with your mom and find out exactly why she will not allow you to see him, explain to her how you feel about him maybe down the road she will let you go out with him so you don't have to sneak out any more.

He asked me out last week & I said yess I told him I would ride the train to see him because he lives in CT while I live in NJ...
My mom thought he lied to me

Just make sure that some one like a trusted friend knows when you go out to see him.

my friends always know when i go see him. but my mom doesnt & she doesnt trust me so its hard to sneak out alot

It's better to try and built a better relationship with your mother. It's not impossible to rebuild the trust, you just need to put some effort in to it.

I told her that she should trust me & that im sorry about the other weekend.but she doesnt trust me at all anymore