Hi All,

It has been four long months since I dumped my cheating ex however, it is difficult as well as painful when I see him out with his new friend because, he knows I left him and I ended alone. I have gotten into myself more, began to socialize more with my friends and family but it is not the same as having someone to come home to . What to do now?


JAZZIE

well sadly it will be different but different does not mean a bad thing.. what I did.. when I lived with someone.. I invited a mate round to stay with me.. a really good friend.. OK it wasn't like having a girlfriend in the house ;). But it took my mind of things at night.. or failing that. Find a hobby.. do some online role playing games!. I'm telling you. If you think girlfriends and boyfriends are hard to get out of you system.. ufff but that's not for everyone :) I know that.. it will be hard but try and find strength in yourself and in your friends.. you need no one in your life to make you feel happy.. all you need for that to happen is yourself =).

Your doing great, just keep doing it, and add a few new things, places ,or people to the list of things you enjoy doing.