I have no idea what to do, I had finally found someone I liked and he liked me too, but then he started to get pretty serious, he was my first "real' boyfriend and we are only 15 and he started to scar me and say he was prepared to spend the rest of his life with me etc and I did not feel very comfortble at all. I told him he was rushing and that I would like him to slow down a bit because I was not feeling comfortble and in the end he did slow down but after a couple of weeks he started again and rushing and pushing things.. I did not know what to do so I called it off we lasted one month.. But after that he kept texing me and talking to me asking if we could get back together again and he would not push or rush into things like before.. but I have heard from his other ex's that he will say something but not sick to it have I done the right thing? ( I hope so) thanks

You're 15, DON'T want to get married or even rush your relationship, and you're asking if YOU did the right thing?
OF COURSE YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!
You're very young and you should take everything slow as to enjoy life while you're at your age.

You did the right thing. That guy is going to say whatever he can to get you to be with him again and then he's just going to pull the same "I want to get married BS as before"

You should give him one more chance but just say your seeing him wich isn't as close as a full on relationship but definitely helps things by not rushing back into the relationship... reading the other comments I agree with what was said as you did do the right thing if you feel uncomfortable but really its all to do with how you feel about him !

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Originally Posted by K80

I have no idea what to do, i had finally found someone i liked and he liked me too, but then he started to get pretty serious, he was my first "real' boyfriend and we are only 15 and he started to scar me and say he was prepared to spend the rest of his life with me etc and i did not feel very comfortble at all. I told him he was rushing and that i would like him to slow down a bit because i was not feeling comfortble and in the end he did slow down but after a couple of weeks he started again and rushing and pushing things.. i did not know what to do so i called it off we lasted one month.. But after that he kept texing me and talking to me asking if we could get back together again and he would not push or rush into things like before.. but i have heard from his other ex's that he will say something but not sick to it have i done the right thing? ( i hope so) thanks

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Mmm, I have had this situation... this guy actually asked me to mary him after we were dating for three months and I broke up with him the day before valentines day... (yeah I know harsh) but he is a phsyco. He showed up at my house and left a huge bag of candy and a bear and candles.. stuff like that. Okay he was like two years older than me and at this point I'm only 14 or 15 and I find out that he has put a down payment on a ring. After a week of being separated from him he runs away to Canada and get lost in the woods. He gets hit by a car and is put into accoma and of course he woke up, but come to find out... on his 18th birthday he was shipped out to Iraq. True story...
And another crazy boyfriend I had tried to ask me to marry him and he was asking me how many kids I want. So I broke up with him and I don't really talk to him anymore. He asked me If I would get back together with him, but I said no... he still looks at me a lot at school. Creapy staring. I say that you just tell him no way.
That he's a creap and find a guy that will listen to you when you say that's enough...
I'd be afraid of being raped by this guy. Maybe a restraining order would be good?