Hi my girlfriend for some unknown reason isn't into forplay.I am into it but the main problem is that I don't know how to give her sexual pleasure because she finds forplay uncoubtftable especially oral I love giving it but yea all she ever wants to do is just have me inside her and I want to give her more or at least know if she enjoys it.any advice for this situation because I don't want things to get sexualy boring for her.

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Originally Posted by UnwantedHero

hi my gf for some unknown reason isnt into forplay.I am into it but the main problem is that i dont know how to give her sexual pleasure because she finds forplay uncoubtftable especialy oral I love giving it but yea all she ever wants to do is just have me inside her and I wanna give her more or at least know if she enjoys it.any advice for this situation coz i dont want things to get sexualy boring for her.

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You can TOTALLY please a girl and keep her coming back for more without oral. The most obvious I would think is POSITIONS. Keep your regular rutine for a while and then when you think it's getting boring then switch it up. I don't think you should try some crazy extreme position or do too many but just start missionary do that for a while when that gets boring go into doggy style stay with those two switching it up for a while then try a differnet position and use that one for a while and so on and so forth that will keep things spicy!! You can also rub her while having sex with her but don't throw that at her too quickly.

Later in the relationship she will get more comfortable with you and with her self and then she will be more open minded to new and differnet things.

I am actually like your girlfriend in the fact that I don't like getting oral. I like giving oral and I don't mind a little hand action on his part down there but I feel really uncomfortable when a guy goes down on me. Its just a self conscious thing for me. You can always bring some toys into play. Vibrators work well with foreplay.

Trick is making her comfortable, Make sure she feels good about how she looks down there, how she smells etc. It may take a while but once she gets over that she will learn to crave it. BUT you have to be patient and make her feel special. For example wife early on wasn't into it that much. Now if she feels and urge at 3am she'll wake me up sitting on my face. :D