I'm going out with a guy named jamie and I'm so confused as I love him with all my heart and soul and he loves me with all he's heart and soul now he's cuzin is trying so hard to break me and him up him and he's ex girlfriend sarah are like best mates she has a new boyfriend and all and jamies cuzin donna is saying like sarah still have feeling for jamie and she's up there 24/7 and donna says that they hook up and all that and act like nothink has even happened look don't get me wrong I trust my boyfriend but I don't trust sarah as there ex's and yeah but I asked jamie in bed lastnight if he has feelings for sarah again and he starting saying he's not going to even talk to her and I feel really bad so what should I do please HELP ME
Confused girl 16

Don't let the cousin get to you maybe they are just jealous and if he is mates with his ex surely that's a good thing as she may be trying to split you up if she was but if jamie loves you you have no worries OK tell jamie you only want to no if you have feelings for her you don't want them to stop being friends because this way you are showing him that you trust him to be friends with another girl and your not trying to make him only talk to guys your happy for him to talk to girls

Let him know what every one is up to, the same way you did here, and let him handle it. Keep your head up, as you know, they have to be jealous or very immature.

Thanks Everyone For Ya Reply And Everythink All You Said Is So True

I think you see who's side he's on, and one thing for sure, its not your side where he would be if he cared. Do you really want someone who doesn't have your back, that's not love at all. As much as it hurts, say good riddance to all of them, as there are better people in the world. Sorry you had to find out this way.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

I think you see who's side he's on, and one thing for sure, its not your side where he would be if he cared. Do you really want someone who doesn't have your back, thats not love at all. As much as it hurts, say good riddance to all of them, as there are better people in the world. Sorry you had to find out this way.

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Yeah your so true but I lost virginity to him & he had my back lastnight the ONLY reason he wantted to break up with me cause he didn't want people playing with my head so what am I to do thanks heaps :)