I am really frustrated! I am a 25 year old female and have never had a orgasm. I try and I have no clue why I can not climax. I have tried different positions, creams, lubes, foreplay. I can't even give myself one! HELP what do I do? Im starting to believe it could be a medical thing. I wish I could experience one or get someone to give me any information to help.

I don't know the exact percentage but there are some that just can't climax one of my college friends had the same problem it feels good but she can't climax it's not a medical problem it just happens to some.. I wish I could help you more.

To begin with don't stress about it so much. If you are thinking about it the whole time then you will forget to enjoy the pleasure and be concentrating on hoping to get off, you will never climax this way. Some women have a really hard time, and they say once you do it once it will come easier after that. For me personally the only way I climax is by outside stimulation. My husband has to go down on me or I have to use a viberator on the outside, not inside. I know maybe too much information... sorry. I would suggest to buy a viberator and go off by yourself, relax, and play around. Don't worry about reaching a climax just have fun. It might take a few times to be successful. Don't give up.

Stress makes it worse... try not to focus on that and it will come... quite literally.

Try having one on your own first, and then it will be easier for you. I thought I would never be able to have one either, but it just takes learning what you like and then experimenting.

Hmm.. the first time I O'ed was in the bath. I let the water run over my body(vagina) at different speeds and temps and kept on trying until I found the right mode for me. make sure you are mentally picturing and feeling your sexual fantasy as if it were happening to you. Don't give up!

Oh and I agree with what someone above me said... outside stmulation.. let the water run over your or buy a vibrator. My vibrator is my best friend.

Relax and watch a porno film