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  • Jun 12, 2007, 08:29 AM
    saigirl
    Wants to move on,but its hard
    I would like to know on how does one get over a pain of partner that has cheated on you(in marriage) and you have forgiven,but still have these funny feelings about the whole thing? I still love my partner and we trying to move on with our lives,but sad thing is I keep on thinkingabout it. I want to fully move on with our lives and love him without any issues.
  • Jun 12, 2007, 11:56 AM
    Rina _4
    The question is: Have you really forgiven him?
    When you do then it will be easier to forget. You have to leave the past in the past and move on, without constantly looking in the back mirror, after all there is nothing you can do to change the past, but what you can change your attitude.

    It's all about the way you think about it.

    Good luck
  • Jun 12, 2007, 11:58 AM
    Squiffy
    Trust is the key to a good marriage, and he has broken your trust. It takes time to try to rebuild it. I tried to forgive my husband after he cheated on me, we tried for a while but it didn't work for me. One day you might trust him again but you can't make yourself trust him.

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