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  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:08 AM
    Jaded1
    I really need a response. I'm only 16.
    My boyfriend and I wanted to know what "it felt like" to be inside... we didn't want to have sex, we just wanted to see how it felt. I know that was a stupid mistake but we did. All he did was go inside and then come out, we didn't do anything else.

    We did this on Thursday, and on Saturday there was I little drop of blood, nothing more. On Monday (today) I wiped on there was a good amount of blood, it was a brightish red color. And not there is absolutely NO blood at all. I am really scared... does anyone know what this means? Please help me, I'm very scared.:confused: :(
  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:10 AM
    Rockabilly1955mama
    When was the last time you had your period?
  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:12 AM
    Jaded1
    It was actually May 21st
  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:13 AM
    Rockabilly1955mama
    Do you think you might be on your period? Or is it a differnet feeling?
  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:18 AM
    Jaded1
    Well I thought I was so I was really excited but it nothing more has come out since then, not even a little drop, and this has never happened before, once it has started it has always continuosly kept going for about 5-6 days. I don't have cramps, and I usually feel symptoms before, like a soar back and breast tenderness, but none of that now.
  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:18 AM
    bekah876
    I wouldn't worry about being pregnant if that is what you are worried about. First, you wouldn't be showing any signs this early on. As for the blood, you are young it is possible that it is your period again. At a young age your periods can be irregular. Or maybe you accidentally tore something. I would guess that this is your period again.
  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:20 AM
    Jaded1
    Thanks bekah, I keep telling myself that but I was looking through the internet, and I never knew about inplantation bleeding, so I got really scared... especially since this has never happened before. I thought I couldve tore something but would it be bleeding this late after we did it?
  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:21 AM
    Rockabilly1955mama
    I agree with bekah. I think it's either your menstral cycle or he might have torn your hymen (The Hymen is a thin membrane that partially covers the vaginal entrance of most females at birth; although an intact hymen is sometimes erroneously thought to prove virginity, it can actually be broken by many activities besides intercourse, such as; riding a bike, inserting a tampon, horse back riding, getting fingered, etc. Many people are under the impression that the hymen is located within the vagina. It is not. It's part of the vulva, the external genital organs. It's located outside the vagina.) when he went inside. Also known as "poppin your cherry".
  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:23 AM
    Jaded1
    Thank you both so much.

    My only question is..
    Could it really be bleeding from being torn this late after we did what we did?
  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:24 AM
    Rockabilly1955mama
    You're very welcome.

    It is possible my dear. But if you're having any doubts or you are uncomfortable at all, you can always go see your doctor about this.
  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:25 AM
    bekah876
    Implantation bleeding is usually about a week before your expected period. Which I know in your case would be right, but I don't think you would have these symptoms this soon. Also if he only went in then came right back out I would guess he didn't get off. You got to have that sperm to make it all happen. The chances of you being pregnant from this one little incident are very very slim. If you got pregnant I know a thousand women who would want to kill you because they have been trying for a year and still nothing. Take a deep breath and relax. I just about guarantee this is an early period.
  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:26 AM
    Jaded1
    Thank you again, if anything else happens, I'll keep you both posted, but now I have to go, my mom's coming home and I don't want her to worry.
  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:27 AM
    bekah876
    It could be bleeding from a tear this late. Our bodies are very complex. If you really want to be sure wait until you are suppose to have your period then take a pregnancy test.
  • Jun 11, 2007, 11:29 AM
    Rockabilly1955mama
    Yes, please keep us posted. But don't stress honey. Take some deep breaths and things will be fine. Good luck!

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