I would appreciate your votes (women and men) and optional comment on this:

Who uses guilty the most to manipulate their partners, men or woman? Why?

Please include your sex and age.
Thank you so much

Who uses guilt as a means of manipulating their partner the most? I am a female, age
55, and I hate to say this but women have my vote.

Why? Just what I have seen from experience. It never worked for me, I married someone who could not be guilted into anything. If it didn't matter to him to begin with, it meant nothing to him anytime.

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Originally Posted by Makiavelic76

I would appreciate your votes (women and men) and optional comment on this:

Who uses guilty the most to manipulate their partners, men or woman? Why?

Please include your sex and age.
Thank you so much

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I would say women do. Just from observation.

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Joe

Sea monkeys

Well my vote, I'm afraid according to my experience is women too, but I have to say there's many of us that we use guilty on a non conscience way to manipulate the response of our partner.

Why women uses more than men, that's one of my mysteries, and that's the REAL purpose of this little survey.

Controversial, didn't it?

Male, 27 y.o

I am a female. I think women use guilt more. Women are taught that men are more aloof and they try to put on the pity act to get what they want. A secure woman will let a man know upfront what she wants and expects. She has no use or needs for game playing.

Women.

Why? Because women need drama.

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I am a 20 year old female and I'm going with women on this vote. I've seen it happen far too many times and I've used it before in the past(sorry to say!:o ). I think it is easier for women to put on the innocent face and use guilt as a tool.

Definitely women man!!

But in some how we are responsible to allow them to use it again us. I think guilt is good only when it can be used to change a wrong way or behavior.

Male, 30