:confused: HI there
I'm moroccan married to an merican.. we had been dating each other online for months till she came from the usa to morocco.. we got married.. she spent two months with her here.. she s great nneasily loved.. we love each other so much.. it was time for her to live.. for her work.. back to the usa.. I m here now in morocco waiting for a visa to be issued.. the problem is that I feel physical pain and heartaches out of love.. she too..
I used to b OK when she was here with me.. now I feel just heartaches that scares me.. but as soon as we talk on the fone or on the net all these aches goes away.. I just want to make sure if these pains I feel in my heart are natural and may go away as soon as I live with my wife again forever or it s may be a heart condition that I have to see the doctor for it..?
I would be grateful if you replied me so soon..
Thank you very much!! :confused:

You are experiencing what is totally normal when someone you love has to be apart from you. I doubt it is a heart condition. You would have other symptoms if it were a heart condition. You are a man in love who misses his wife.

It is normal that you feel like that, there is nothing wrong with your heart physical speaking. Try to keep busy up until the time that you will see her;)

My husband is also in morocco while I am in the uk. I thought I was alone in feeling pain because I missed him so much but hamdolah I'm not alone haha.
But on a more serious note... the best thing for you to do is keep busy and try to think of the happiness you will have in the future when you are both together. You are probably thinking "thats easy to say" which is true because it isn't that easy to do but you have to. She is most definitely experiencing the same pain you are but she has to keep busy and try not to panic (which is what I'm trying to do)
Good luck my friend and I hope within time you and her are together very soon.
Wsalam

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Originally Posted by angelu

:confused: HI there
i m moroccan married to an merican..we had been dating eachother online for months till she came from the usa to morocco..we got married..she spent two months with her here..she s great nneasily loved..we love eachother so much..it was time for her to live..for her work..back to the usa..i m here now in morocco waiting for a visa to b issued..the problem is that i feel physical pain and heartaches out of love.. she too..
i used to b ok when she was here with me..now i feel just heartaches that scares me..but as soon as we talk on the fone or on the net all these aches goes away..i just wanna make sure if these pains i feel in my heart are natural n may go away as soon as i live with my wife again forever or it s may b a heart condition that i have to see the doctor for it...????
i would b grateful if u replied me so soon ..
thank u very much!!!:confused:

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You are experiencing the One Flesh union.

Matthew 19 5 For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife, and they two shall be in one flesh.

Therefore, when you are apart, because of your love for each other, you feel as though you have been torn apart.

May you be rejoined in God's love soon.

Sincerely,

De Maria

I too have been feeling this with the loss of my girlfriend when she returned to the Philippines.
Sounds old fashioned and romantic, doesn't it? But I really do feel like my heart has literally been ripped out of my chest. She feels it too, she cries a lot, and we've only been apart for three weeks!

We webcam and Yahoo! To one another, and phone and SMS, and it does make things feel better, but only for a little while. I am going to see her in Phil. In November, but it seems so far away.

Just to add fuel to the fire, I lost my job as well, so I have nothing to occupy my mind.

If both people feel the same way, is it this communities view that this is "tru love"? I feel at times that she is still with me, by my side. I also consider us to be very lucky, despite the fact it hurts.

Andrew.