I have a big problem. I have a friend and I trust her. She's not my best friend but we are very close. SO, She used to help me with my relationships and with the guy I liked and she was all cool about it and she said that the guy liked me. I didn't believe her. Then I kind of stopped liking the guy because he was with this other girl all the time. It seemed that they were having a good time - and they still are - I don't like anyone right now. With my best guy friend we used to talk on msn and stuff and wenever someone had to leave we both used to say "I love you" (friendly way of course) I found that really cute and I told that friend. Then she told the guy that I told her and we didn't talk for a while. It was embarrassing. Then with this OTHER guy we hug every day. I told my friend that, that was cute too and she told the guy. And then the guy told me and we didn't talk for a while. It feels bad to trust someone and then she betrays you... what should I do Please help me... thanks.

Let me see she is merely telling true facts of things you are doing, telling someone you love them and hugging someone, So what is the problem, if you are doing these things, then are you ashamed of them.

So perhaps she is also good friends with this guy also and wants to protect him also.

Next as you grow and mature you will learn you work and do your own relationships, not have people talk for you.

Watch who you trust, if they don't deserve it, don't trust them

Thanks guys

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Originally Posted by Sk8eR

I have a big problem. I have a friend and i trust her. shes not my best friend but we are very close. SO, She used to help me with my relationships and with the guy I liked and she was all cool about it and she said that the guy liked me. I didnt believe her. Then I kinda stopped liking the guy coz he was with this other girl all the time. It seemed that they were having a good time - and they still are - I dont like anyone right now. With my best guy friend we used to talk on msn and stuff and wenever someone had to leave we both used to say "I love you" (friendly way of course) I found that really cute and i told that friend. Then she told the guy that i told her and we didnt talk for a while. It was embarrasing. Then with this OTHER guy we hug every day. I told my friend that, that was cute too and she told the guy. and then the guy told me and we didnt talk for a while. It feels bad to trust someone and then she betrays you...what should i do Please help me...thanks.

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Well I think you should stick with you think because if you don't you will get screwed in the end as a girl I no that you may think they are your friends and they may turn on you at any time so just watch your back and take it slow friendship before dating is always good

Hi...
Believe me ik how it feels... be friends with her but just don't tell her nothing no more because if u cause a fight with her, u will loose a friend so be mad for a while but just don't loose a friend and make sure u do not tell her nothing no more.. Because she's not a true friend!!