:( Okay, I've decided that since people are telling me he needs time I am not going to text him. I have been reading sites on how to get a ex back but you know what I don't care anymore. He either comes back to me or he doesn't. I'm not going to play his little mind games. If he texts me first I will text him if I have anything to say I usually don't. I try way harder than him to make conversation but he texts me first so that shows he either misses me or still thinks about me. If you have any other advice please tell me I could use it all. Thanks. (:

I am sorry to say this but it seems to me that the relationship you have with this guy appears to going nowhere.

You have said yourself that you don't care anymore so why bother?

If you wait for him to text you before you contact him it appears that this is not a real relationship and you appear no more than just friends.

If you both find it difficult finding things to say to each other that too gives me the impression that this relationship is not going anywhere.

My advice is that you should consider what you want from a relationship and are you and this guy getting what you want out of the relationship you currently have?

If not simply call it quits and move on and find a relationship which is going to make you happy.

I feel sure that you and your current 'boyfriend' will find it easier and better to go your separate ways.

There appears to be no reason why you both can't remain friends though.

Good luck.

Poseidon

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Good attitude. If he wants you back, he will find you. In the meantime, start moving on with your life. Don't play the waiting game. There's lots of stuff ahead of you in life.

Did he leave you to see his ex again?

One thing you need to be careful of is that he is not keeping you on the sidelines so that he can just pop back in your life when he can't get anywhere with another girl or at his convenience.