My husband took contact with his X after 22 years of marriage. We were having some isues but never discussed these. I was stupid enough to believe that thingds would blow over as normal and all would go on. I was really worried with his attitude one evening and asked what was wrong. He was ignoring me and avoiding me. I asked if thre was someone else in a stupid attempt to get him to speak. He said he didn't know. I found out that he had been texting his long lost X from his hometown daily for the past 3 months although he didn't admit this until I showed him the phone bill!
I am devastated. He does not want to leave me but he doesn't know if he loves me either. I love him dearly . He said that he has stopped contact with her but he is miserable has aches and pains everywhere, what am I to believe, I think he misses her . He said there was no physical contact , but she sent me some of his texts where he says that he has always loved her... I feel cheap and scared. I am in a foreign country with no one to turn to what should I do? This feeling of feeling love and feeling of being used is killing me I am dying from the inside out and need help. Can I believe him or not ?