Ok my ex and I broke up (his doing) over 5 years ago, we have only just started talking a year ago which he initiated. Firstly, not sure why he rung after 5 years, maybe he was lonely.
Anyway, after about 10mths of chatting he asked me to move in with him and a mate of his (cause their current housemate was moving out), it was probably a really dumb decision to make but I ended up moving in. I have been here 2 months now and everything was sort of OK, a bit uncomfortable though but now its just weird cause he brings his new girlfriend home.
I'm not sure if I should move out because:
1. I enjoy the chance to see him everyday (maybe I'm not over him)
2. I sort of feel obliged to help cover the rent as I don't have a replacement for the room
3. If I move out he and I might stopped talking to each other (not sure if that would be a good thing or not)
I know this is all my own doing but I didn't want to have any regrets by turning down the offer of moving in with him. But if I was his current girlfriend, I wouldn't like the idea of him living with his ex, even though we broke up a long time ago.
Your opinion of this situation and his motives would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for all replies in advance.