I am curious, or I was board and just wanted to get some answers to this ? But would you rather be with a guy cause of looks, attitude? Or by the way he treats you and makes you fell? I was just wondering! I would like to know I guess.

Id want to be with a guy because of the way he treats me, his attitude, humor, his character and overall if he is a good person and can hold his own... looks are good too but you can't always go with some 1 because they look good

Looks are nice but it is not that big a factor in making a decision whether to date a guy. I look for habits he has such as smoking since I and my youngest son are allergic to cigarette/cigar smoke. I look for any pattern of alcohol intake. I want to know how he manages his time - if he is a procrastinator or someone who gets things done when they need to be done. Can he be trusted? What are his dealings with other people? Is he Dr. Jekkyl by day and Mr. Hyde by night? What are his personal beliefs about God and living for Jesus? Is he kind to animals? How does he view others who have either mental or physical disabilities?

I am not expecting a saint because I am not sure not one either. But there has to be a common ground of agreement on critical issues. It takes time to develop the friendship and more time to advance the friendship into dating, if that is where both want it to go.

For me, the wisdom he has.
If he could win me by his achievement
If he stays humble
If he has a good heart

The feeling between two people work for many people, but mind still leads it, not all your heart.

BE RATIONAL ALL THE TIME if you can.

To me picking a guy is all about first impressions... if he comes across too full of himself and doesn't care about anyone then I put no interest in him. But there are exceptions to that haha, some girls like their guys to come across as a bad lol. Me I am all on their attitude and how the treat me and make feel. Looks to me are a bonus!