My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year. She is about 10 years older than I and makes slightly more money than me (we're both in the same industry). She has no loans, because her parents paid for her college, while I am still paying for my own, because I just graduated a couple of years ago.
She wants me to pay for food when we go out, groceries when she shops (which sometimes I also eat, but she eats for 3 people, so what lasts me a week lasts her 2 days), and clothing. She asked for a very expensive ring, which took a chunk from my savings, which she doesn't even like and won't wear. And if I complain, she'll ask why I'm so calculating and why I'm so cheap... She also says the things I do don't count, since I was reluctant to do it, but my bank account doesn't see it that way... I'm losing hundreds to her every month.
She also wants me to save so I can pay for wedding and a house. She first suggested we split these, but now changed her mind (which she doesn't allow me to do, she gets very unreasonably angry when I change plans) about wedding and saying since house is so much more expensive, she should just pay for house and it'd be the same. But she is very cheap and I know when it comes time to buy house, she's also going to force me to empty my savings.
The other issue is, I told her we should wait for house and wedding (until I can afford it) and she didn't want to, she wants both as soon as possible. For this reason, it would only be fair if she paid for them... but she doesn't think this is reasonable logic.
She also expects me to do the cooking and since she can't clean, I also have to do that. She has a very short temper and will blow up at anything. She can't take responsibility for anything... she betrayed her first ex and blamed him for feeding her food that increases her sex drive. Which is another problem, we had sex maybe once in three or four months and it's not even real sex, because we stop immediately, because she doesn't like it. She doesn't like kissing either. I've asked her what she enjoys, but she doesn't really give any real answers. It really doesn't seem she likes me at all.
She says my complaints aren't valid, because her Chinese friends (she's Chinese) are worse than her and their husbands don't complain.