When I find my husband have an affair with a woman, I feel bad but when I asked him if you're in an affair go , he said no I love you I don't want to leave you for my kid.

After that I don't forgive him any more, and I stopped any relations with him, because I think maybe he will make cooperation me with her, and maybe he had a wonderful time and nice affair with love, that it make me feel bad. How I can like her, that make my sad from I afraid to make with him any contact, then I never trust him any more if he cheat on me again. Why he doesn't cheat on me me again, or maybe he still love her but he doesn't want to finish his marriage just yet.

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You need to sit and talk about what happened. If he made a mistake and you believe him things might go back to normal. Giving a second chance is okay but if it happens again you might have to think seriously about what’s best for you.

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Originally Posted by ranat

when i find my hasben have a fair with woman , i feel bad but when i aske him if you r in fair go , he said no i love you i dont want to live you for my kid

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Are you saying that your husband had an affair with another woman and had a child with her?

Is he still in touch with the other woman? IF there is a child, is he taking responsibility for him/her?

IF you want to try to rebuild the trust and foundation of your marriage and have marriage counseling available, it might be best to see if he will go with you.

He made a choice to get involved with someone other than you. It is your choice now whether you have enough love and trust in him to allow him to stay or you ask him to leave.

Is this child by someone he slept with while with you, or before you met him?