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  • Mar 2, 2012, 07:10 PM
    Adelvalle
    I want my girl back! I recently found out she cheated on me
    I broke my leg at work on a motorcycle... This happened on Christmas day... Since then we haven't been like we used to... I found she cheated on me while I was in the hospital and it killed me inside... How can I get over this and make her love me again? This is the first girl I ever really loved... I never lied, cheated, nor abused her... I'm devastated and I only want to be with her... I'm to scared to be alone but I don't want to be without her... I still have a few more months of recovery to go (physically).
  • Mar 2, 2012, 07:18 PM
    mmresd
    Forget about her. You have your work cut out for yourself. Not only is she not worth your time, because she is cheating on you, but you have a lot of better things to focus on. For example, being scared of being alone is not a normal feeling, get those therapy for your anxiety, in fact you should feel at peave when you are alone. And with her, you may have loved her more than anything in the world, but it is obvious that those feelings are not shared by her. Stay busy, focus on yourself and on your physiche.
  • Mar 2, 2012, 08:33 PM
    BK201
    How to make her love you again?
    Once you have recovered, go meet her again, talk to her and find out what she really has been up to all these days, and decide then.
    Does she come to see you while you're bedridden? Have you asked her about all these things yet?
  • Mar 2, 2012, 10:52 PM
    talaniman
    Sorry she cheated, and you will be alone so get used to it, or be cheated on again. No one is worth that kind of humiliation, and abuse during a weak time in their life. The first is hard to let go, but you will be stronger for it.
  • Mar 3, 2012, 10:10 AM
    Adelvalle
    I'm not scared to be alone... This damn iPad did an auto correction and put "to" instead of "not"... I'm not scared to be alone I just don't want to be without her... Thanks for the help anyway people lol
  • Mar 3, 2012, 01:35 PM
    talaniman
    I understand, its plain what YOU want, but do you know what SHE wants and why? Seems to be two different wants going on here.
  • Mar 3, 2012, 11:59 PM
    Adelvalle
    Got good news for y'all... **** that *****!! I'm done with her selfish, cold-hearted, stupid ***... I have a long road of physical therapy ahead of me... She was a negative person, didn't give a **** appearantly, doesn't care about family, and obviously has no values... I can't be with someone negative nor unfaithful by my side during this recovery... I'm better off alone... I feel like a new man!!
  • Mar 4, 2012, 06:28 AM
    talaniman
    I celebrate you seeing the truth, but break ups still suck!

    Much luck with your recovery, and healing.

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