The hurtful things men say
Ive been with my baby's father for 2 years and I gained weight because of the baby. I was always a big girl I am 5ft 10in tall and I currently weight 217. When we met I was 200. Anyway now he's telling me that he loves me but he don't like big girls and he wants me to lose weight. I started working out and I lost 8 pounds, I couldn't workout the week of christmas because I was very very busy, and he had a fit. He had the nerve to tell me that if I don't lose weight he's going to leave me or cheat on me.
I was very hurt that he said that and my mind is telling me to get fit and drop his . But I don't know if I should do that. Im starting to think that he doesn't love me bust he claims that I'm overreacting but I don't feel that way. He appologized and told me that he just wants me to be healthy and he wants me to get in shape because my weight bothers him. What should I do? I do want to lose weight anyway but not for him for myself.