Me and a co worker has been flirting at work and every break she wants to meet outside in the car for private time... usual we hug and I feel on her booty but yesterday I took it a step further and went in for a kiss she turned her head and refused to kiss me... And now she tells me to wait and let her go in 1st when before she would walk in with me... I'm starting to feel like a work place trick... should I continue to just get my feels or should I leave it alone?

She is getting off and you are doing it. What is she.doing for.you?

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Originally Posted by ma0641

She is getting off and you are doing it. What is she.doing for.you?

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Guess I like the attention

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Originally Posted by dazzleman5776

Guess I like the attention

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She appears to like it too. She's using you.

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Originally Posted by ma0641

She appears to like it too. She's using you.

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For attention as well huh

She clearly wants it platonic she just thinks your hot big compliment nice, dude lifes to short IT literally keep doing your thing why end it, you go for her your going to get hurt because she doesn't want that right now, just go with the flow, and you know what if you feel like a "slut" just figure how chicks usually feel, the only reason you feel this way is because She's intitateing she's the one that wants it and your giving it, which is great for you- u got to switch those tables to avoid that slutty feeling if its actually getting to you, fact though most relationships come from work, maybe it might evolve but don't push for that, find someone else but don't be a about it, just use her to sub side you over

Taking a purely practical approach, you first should review your workplace policies regarding interpersonal relationships.
It reminds me of an old saying "Don't crap where you eat" meaning simply it's just not wise to make uncomfortable your means of supporting yourself.
If it were me I'd let it go, it's obvious that for some reason she wants to keep things on the down-low.