Why won't my boyfriend have sex with me any more?
My boyfriend and I have been together for just over 4 months, and up until recently we would have sex at least once a day, now I'm lucky if we have sex once in a fortnight. He's my first sexual partner and until now I hadn't really realised I had such a high sex drive. We knew each other well and had been out together several times before we decided we'd make things "official" and he let me get used to the idea of being in a relationship before we started fooling around, and even then it was almost a month before we actually had sex- he wanted to make sure I was ready and it was what I really wanted before we went all the way. It always seemed like he was much more into me at that point than I was into him. But now I'm afraid this isn't the case any more. I drop all the hints I can without actually saying "for God's sake will you just have sex with me" and after about an hour of trying to get him the mood when he clearly isn't responding I give up, he thinks I'm just mardy and he goes home or boots me out of his house with the feeblest of excuses. When we do eventually have sex I am ALWAYS the one to initiate it, unless he's had a few beers, and then he is barely capable. I just feel like he doesn't want me any more; or that, I'm not allowed to want to have sex, but he should get it when he wants it- which is not often. Sometimes, I'll get turned on, and I think sometimes he knows it and he'll say he has to go/ or that he's going to have to boot me out. So I'm not mardy, I'm upset and feel very rejected. I usually end up in tears out of frustration and the fact that he has hurt me. I hate to think it's because he's cheating, since he's told me in previous relationships (yes more than once) women have cheated on him and he would never wish it on anyone else. I don't know if he just found something suddenly unattractive about me that turns him off so he can't have sex with me, but I'm getting so down about this. I'e tried talking to him about it, but I get so wound up and upset that in the end I just have to leave because he doesn't understand what I'm trying to say. Can anyone help? Is anyone even still interested after that long winded explanation? I hope so.