Help. I have a massive massive fear of ending up alone. or being single for the rest of my life as I have social anxiety. I just can't find the right guy. I cannot imagine dying alone or losing my parents. I would die. I have dreams about my bullies from school every night and flashbacks from the past and I just hate every minute of every day because I just cannot overcome my fears.

Fear can be overwhelming if you have no coping strategy. Not unusual for youths that have issues that have failed to be properly addressed. I think we all have faced that dilemma before. I can only suggest a wise respected female with a good listening ear for now, even if you must seek a professional to guide you through your own feelings and focus you toward gaining and practicing coping skills to build your self confidence, and foster courage as you mature.

Sound helpful? Is there such a female in your life? Please be patient with yourself as such an undertaking takes time, and likely will not be immediately successful, but you can persevere here.

What do you think?