My son worked with his father for 17 years. They got into an argument over petty stuff one day and they both blew up on each other. My husband has seen him one time in 8 months, when my son stopped to get his tools out of the r=truck, my husband apologized that day, but it was not enough for my son. I have spoke with him many times about this, he keeps telling me it's more about the years of no respect and always being yelled at. My problem is he will NOT come over for any Holidays and I'm getting very depressed. I miss him and have not spent a Christmas without him in 35 years. I don't know what to do..