Why the mixed signals from her?
I have been out with this girl a few times. We met through mutual friends 2 months ago. We are both quite hectic with work, social lives etc, so it has been quite a slow burner with us meeting for a date every 10 days or so.
I have been happy with that, we speak a bit in between, mainly by e-mail.
I am just struggling to read her mixed signals. If I drop her an e-mail, she can take 3 or 4 days to respond, if I suggest a date, she will say yes, but try and make it at least a week or 10 days in advance. That suggests uncertainty to me.
But that is the opposite of how she acts when she is with me. We have the date, it is her who suggests we go out again soon and she always texts later that evening to say thanks. That says she is keen to me.
The other uncertainty in my mind came when I saw her the other evening. She came to mine for some dinner, we had a nice evening, bit of wine. We were just chilling, chatting etc, and it seemed like something might happen, she then suddenly made her excuses and left, she couldn't get out quick enough! But, she then messaged me when she got home and said what a great time she had, and that did I want to go to her place for dinner sometime.
What are the mixed signals about?
I should add that there may be a complicating factor (as far as she is concerned). She suffers from an illness, it can mean she is ill from time to time. She asked me, the first time we met, if that bothered me, it doesn't, but perhaps she may be cautious because of that?
Thoughts people?