My situation started in May 2007. I am in my late 40's and my boyfriend (in his early 40's), now fiancé had gone to meet my family at a birthday family function. He was very enticed with my sister's best friend. It really hurt. His head spinned around like it was going to fall off. It was evident that they were both attracted to each other. This woman, Mrs. M is married, beautiful, and very stunning. I told him that I was not young in my 30's as this woman is and if that is what he wanted then to go and find what he is looking for. He has told me several times that is not what he wants, but when we are out, he uncontrollably stares at women with this certain profile. He still stares at her a lot when we go to family functions to the point of me getting nauseated. I won't even go to my family functions. We are to wed in the near future, but I get this immense fear when he does this. Granted he tells me that he is working on this. It has been difficult for me to cope with this situation. I made an appointment to go to counseling. We got his items in from storage and Mrs. M looks like his ex-wife, so this explains a lot. HELP!