My fiancée and I have been together for 4 years, engaged for 1. We are planning to elope next summer. He is a very hard working man and I totally respect and appreciate that about him. He is a partner in a business with his father and brother and they are the only employees of the company. Anyway, to make a long story short, the work load has become a bit ridiculous in my mind. He used to get up at 6am and be home by 7:30 at night. Now, I'm lucky if he's home by 10. He works every day but Sunday and we have no time to be together, because when he finally does get home, he just passes out. I understand that's he's exhausted from work and he needs his rest since he's doing manual labor all day but it's frustrating. I don't know what to do. He's so good to me and we are so in love, and other than the usual minor arguments here and there we get along wonderfully. The fact that he works 80+ hours a week allows for a VERY stable financial situation for us, but I just don't know if it's worth the lack of time together. I'd rather have him work a little less, and maybe not be so wealthy? I feel alone, and I'm starting to resent the situation. I don't want to have children some day and be raising them not really knowing their father because he's too busy working to be around. What should I do? I love this man with all my heart, and it's aching to have him around more.. and to get this out of the way before anyone says it.. I have NO thoughts he may be cheating.