Need some signs of men behavior when they are afraid either to commit or just not interested. It may be a close call but I need to know

Honeybun,

Is this the same guy you were meeting at the hotel? I really think you should break off this booty call arrangement and concentrate on a real relationship. The occasional hook-up may be gratifying for a while, but there is nothing else that would characterize a normal relationship except gratuitous sex and there is so much more to a healthy relationship than just that.

To your immediate question, men who are afraid of rejection will avoid making any long term commitments and you will rarely if ever get a definitive answer from them. Not to mince words, but you are not getting any younger and you are wasting time on this unproductive arrangement.

--Specter

I know you're right