If a man is straight. Is it a deal breaker or a relationship ender if you found out that he enjoyed sleeping in women's night clothes?

If I'm serious about him, I'd go with him to a couples counselor to figure out how this (and other preferences?) would affect our relationship.

What you choose to wear doesn't dictate who you are. If I like you already, finding out you wear women's night clothes wouldn't change that. I would wonder why, because most women's night clothes are itchy, uncomfortable, and just a pain in the you know what. I myself refuse to wear them, and I'm female. I prefer just underwear at night, less restrictive. But hey, whatever makes you happy.

Hello ladies. It's refreshing to hear so many open minded females exist. Not to blow anyone's romantic bubble, but consider what if wearing female clothes to bed, was just the most obvious thing to know? Just the tip of the iceberg? Just a part of his off beat freaky? It might not be a deal breaker now with what little you do know about Mr. Adorable, but we also know once the lust wears off and we learn more, and HE gets comfortable with your acceptance, things can take a drastic turn once he brings out the pasties and wigs and gets hold of your favorite makeup.

Getting my drift? This little thing that gives you pause may not be the biggest, or ONLY thing that you have gotten yourself into. Isn't that how it really goes? But what do I know, just being a poor dumb boring man who leaves his wife stuff alone... unless she INSISTS... 8)

First off I asked this question to women only. Just so you know and no I don't care if you believe me or not. I do not wear make up, shave my legs or wear women's clothes outside of the bedroom. I just find them comfortable to sleep in.

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I just find them comfortable to sleep in.

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Which ones? My favorite bedclothes are an oversize cotton-knit shirt and cotton-knit sweatpants. (Husband has to have the bedroom temp at 60 or lower year-round.)

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Originally Posted by zxcxzv123

First off I asked this question to women only. Just so you know and no I don't care if you believe me or not. I do not wear make up, shave my legs or wear women's clothes outside of the bedroom. I just find them comfortable to sleep in.

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Are you the guy in question? Sorry to insert myself but it is an open forum. Does your partner question your sleep ware choices?

I’m going to be brutally honest. Yes, it is a deal breaker for me personally. I don’t want to see my man in panties and lingerie. For my ideal mate, I prefer a manly man in every way shape and form. I know I couldn’t enjoy lovemaking or romantic time if my spouse had on a pair of my lace panties.

Yes. I have found it both ways. Some have had a problem with it and some have not.

Wondergirl Silk gowns.

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Wondergirl Silk gowns.

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Don't they twist around and hike up your legs? Silk is cold, so you must have a warm bedroom!

No I don't have a problem with them and I like it cold. I sleep so much better in them than I do anything else.

They do have men’s silk pajamas.

Yes and I do wear those sometimes. I just prefer the gowns. They are cooler and are just more comfortable to me.

Zxcxzv123, you stated some females were OK with this and some wasn't. My advice, if you find someone who is OK with this then stick with her.