How Do I Catch Him Cheating?
3 posts merged together about the same relationship to avoid confusion, and have the whole story in ONE place.
The title says it all.
Before you ask, I have many reasons to suspect.
He isn't one to hold an honest conversation, so, I'm desperate for a different approach.
His Dishonesty, My Insecurity
I'm in the dumps today, as per usual, and I need to vent. I'm hoping to also get a few answers to some of my prying questions.
I've caught my boyfriend in a lot of lies, and they went unpunished. I didn't want to start a fight, so I buried them. It's caused me a lot of grief and insecurity.
He's lied about talking to other girls, exchanging pictures with them, and blamed all of the filthy porn data in his PS3 on a roommate that moved out over three years ago.
He calls me a snoop, which, may or may not be true. But it's all driven by the paranoia and stress he causes me by being dishonest. He'll get extremely angry to defend himself, scream at me and threaten to take off.
We need more communication in this relationship because it's slowly falling to pieces, and we've both put too much into it to just watch it crumble.
I want to know why I'm not enough for him. If he is seeking out other women, even if only over the Internet and cell phone, is it because I lack something? I can't help but turn all of this pain and suffering around on myself.
I am in desperate need of support.