Every 10 days or so my wife becomes angry, irritated and confrontational. We were remarried 10 after divorcing, but there is no change in her behavior. I am a female also. She accuses me of not wanting to help out. We live in the south, I am 60 and jobs are hard to come by at this age. Every time I get a job she sabotages my ability to get there. So I lose them. But when I go back north and try to reclaim my life she is stalking me, hacking me phone and email accounts, calling literally bashing me to my friends, alienating me from my family by causing problems with them. I have asked her to go counseling, we can go but she says she will and never does. Then she tells me all that she is doing for me and how ungrateful I am if I do not respond to the fight. If I take a walk she is yelling out the door so the neighbors can see our dysfunction. Please help!!