I just got out of a 2 year relationship like 4 months ago. I only had, had sex with my ex who I loved very much. I'm 19 by the way. We had sex when I was 17 and he was almost 5 yrs older than me and we had it continuously through the 2 years we were together. We were always safe and cautious. With him the sex was good and we loved each other so it was always safe and comfortable. Since I have been single I have been dating a bit- I'm not ready for a new relationship just yet but dating has been all right and I have met some nice guys. The thing is on all the dates I went on we didn't do more than a little kissing and maybe a little touching. However, I met this guy through my friend and through my job, he's 24 and I really liked him. We hung out like maybe twice and talked online a bit. He's a dj at clubs and he seemed like a great guy. I believe in waiting to have sex until I love someone and I always have followed that. Well I hung out with him at his apartment the other night and we ended up messing around and kissing... I was OK with it all until he just slipped himself inside me. I was like ummm do you have a condom on? And he's like no... and I'm like omg stop! And he was like its OK I had a vasectomy ( he has 2 other little children that he doesn't live with and sees once in a while) I was just like "but i still dont feel comfortable" and he's like its OK and he said "should i stop" and I stupidly said just pull out before you climax. So he was in me a very very short time like 5 minutes then pulled out and climaxed ( not anywhere near me). I always, always said I wouldn't have sex until I love someone, and I would never ever have sex without a condom. Not even because I don't want to get pregnant but I am terrified of getting an std or worse. He has 2 kids already so now I'm panicking. Was the vasectomy thing a line ( now after I kind of feel very dumb for believeing that if it is a line and it seems like it might be)... im really scared to get tested. What should I do now?