Originally Posted by
Jake2008
I think you are both messed up, equally.
The relationship is only six months old, and always in the beginning of a relationship, you learn about each other, after the initial euphoria wears off.
With you two, she has learned you are an ex addict, you've 'passed out' due to.. Drugs, alcohol? She is also using, regularly.
Then, you quit your job, and lament a broken relationship, that was broken from the get-go.
Had you been together for even a few years, I can see where you or her, would be supportive as problems come up, and work through them together. But, after six months, I think you BOTH should be grateful that the relationship ended before it imploded. Or, before a child was brought into this mess, or you had shared assets, etc.
Consider yourself lucky to be rid of an active cocaine user, andshe should consider herself lucky, being rid of a man who quits his well paying job, also uses to some extent, and has extremely unrealistic expectations of a relationship, that never was.