Brushing off hurtful remarks about your looks
I don't get it. If someone doesn't like you for personal problems, they rag on your looks. I've never had high self esteem or confidence so once anyone says I have a big nose or my lips are too small I get offended. And I wish I didn't, I really do. I just don't know how not to get offended by the low blows people throw at me. Some people say some really hurtful things. I never call anyone ugly, or say they have something wrong with their face to inslut them. It's what gives them charatcher, am I right? After all, it's not even their fault. You can't choose how you want to look, everyone's beautiful to me--inside and out. Well some people aren't so pretty on the inside.
I just get hurt too eaisly by silly remarks. And it brings myself confidence and esteem even lower than before. I shouldn't let thoes things get to me... but I'm only human. An old friend and I had a falling out and she just called me ugly names and said my nose was too big and I have an ugly face and other things that just hurt deep down. Looks like the day has took a turn for the worse.:(
Does anyone have some adivce for me to follow? How to not let these things eat at me on the inside because lord knows it isn't healthy. I'd really appreicate it, thank you.