I have a 21 year old step son; who doesn't work and sits at home all day playing video games. He doesn't even help clean around the house, he literally does nothing. He started college and quit after a couple months when he first graduated, he has had at least ten jobs and quit or been fired from all of them, his latest only lasted two days! He came home and told my wife he had an asthma attack and developed a rash on his hands. When she questioned him further he began crying until she said it was OK for him to quit. She has coddled so much that he cannot do the simplest of things. I tell her a 21 year old man should not be sitting in his room all day, that it is not healthy, and he should have to work and I become the bad guy. I have told her, if he is not working by his 22nd birthday(in December) I am moving out because I am not going to help support him anymore. He is overweight and has cholesterol higher than myself and I am 39. I told her his lifestyle is killing him and I don't want to enable him. Do you think I am making the right decision?