How to deal with a momma's boy?
My boyfriend is a major momma's boy and needs her input on everything. He pretty much has her do all his dirty work for him. He even had her call his ex when the ex was trying to get a hold of him about money he owed her, and he is 30!
His mom is very needy and manipulative. If he does not call her for a whole day, she calls and puts a guilt trip on him. I am starting to resent her and her constant butting in and handling everything for him.
She left him and his sister for another guy when they were kids, left them with their father who drank a lot. I think that might have a lot to do with this unhealthy attachment. She pretty much says jump, and he says "How high, Mommy."
Is anyone else dealing with this, or does anyone have any advice on how to approach this?