I Think my boyfriend is envaded by whatever hits him!
Been with this guy for almost a year ( February will make it).
He is 27 yrs at first I have thought that he suffered from some sort of mental health issues or anxiety issues... but I don't know... I picked up some signs but don't think they are still valid... It has happened twice that he has disappeared for a few days when his life seems to be too much or unbearable for him... Isolation is a form of negative coping mechanism but I tried to make him understand that I worry when he acts this way... its not far to make me worry like that... When I comment on it he says he is sorry but doesn't seem to understand why I worry... Again this weekend he does it but I caught quicker news from him by text... Here is the story: On Friday he calls me and says he is going to clinic cause he has a bad cut on his finger happened at work... Later on he contacts me and says he couldn't wait anymore at the clinic took too much time so he went to the pharmacie and bought some medication hoping that it won't get infected... The next day tried contacting him to see how his finger is doing and no where to be found...
I leaved him texts and he didn't reply
( I hate writing text message but he seems to enjoy that... I prefer verbal communication easier to get my message accrossed)
The next day I called a few times same thing no answer... until I sent him a text expressing the fact I hate the fact he always disappears or never calls back... he answered back brefly saying he is at the clinic and that his finger got infected... I simnply replied saying that the fact his finger got infected he couldn't call me back and that he could call me back when he done with the clinic...
Long story for nothing but what I am trying to say is that he gets envaded by life unforseen occurrences and forgets about people around him... its just not right but I don't know how to make it clearer?