My fiancé neglected to tell me he's had genital herpes all along?
Hi,
I'm wondering what to do in this situation. I was recently helping my fiancé out and packed up some things for a last minute work trip and as I was packing his travel bag for toothbrush, toothpaste etc. I noticed a pill bottle I'd never seen before. I shouldn't have been snoopy and googled the name of it but I found out it was to treat herpes. I confronted him about it and have found out he's neglected to tell me he has had genital herpes since before we started dating six years ago. I reacted appropriately but internally I am raging. I'm pissed off I was never given the choice to back away from the situation and now, according to my doctor, I won't know for sure if I have it unless I get an outbreak. Despite me politely expressing my frustration about never being informed I've kept my thoughts to myself hence why I am posting here. I understand that he's less likely to give it to me without an outbreak but can through skin to skin contact via viral shedding. While I am completely sympathetic to his situation and obviously don't define him by having herpes this has completely turned me off wanting to go near him - mostly from the fact that I'm so angry that he wouldn't have informed me. Would you stay?