I know a girl likes me (Im a 15 year old boy) and I think I like her but I'm afraid to ask her out. Our friend brought us together and was like "Ask her out". I just froze and then she had to go. The reason I think I do not want to go out with her is because 1.) I do not know how to act or what to do. When I went out with another girl, we were good friends until we went out. I got really shy. Then she broke up with me and things were weird. Me and this new girl talk a lot and flirt. I am really talkative normally to her. Once I found out she liked me, I barely talked to her. I started to talk to her more but still not a lot. If I was to go out with her, I would ruin our friend relationship. What should I do?

Try doing more "just friends" activities, but don't take too long. She may find someone else. Your advantage is that you know she likes you too.

XenoSapien

My names andrea I am 15 myself but if you really like this girl and you really want to be with her you should really give it a shot... I sometimes have this problem I meet a really good guy then he starts to like me and I feel really weird too... but if that's the case slow down let thing build up by its self cause you don't want to ruin a good friend relationshup right??
Let me know how it works out good luck

I thought you thought you were gay...

I think I am which may be why I have problems with girl friends, however I made this before I started thinking deeply about if I'm gay.

You might be bi and like both. If you go out and don't feel comfortable just make casual small talk. Ask simple question like did you see this movie, did you like, and the coversation will flow. For some reason after the first "date" and it doesn't work out you all can probably still be friends just be honest with her.

Yeah who knows you might be bi! Personally I think you are.

I think you should try it.. if you think she's nice,pretty,fun etc. I think you should give it a shot. It won't hurt to try it out..

Good luck!

Xoxo- buddy

You seem like a really sweet guy.
Just go for it, & hope for the best :]

I know that your original post here is somewhat old now and I don't really know where you are at as far as how you feel about the person who you are but, as far as asking people out, you just do it. It takes practice. You get better at it the more that you do it. You find a commonality with the other person and talk about those things.

You are going to have failures. I certainly did when I was a part of the dating scene. You let the failures roll off your shoulders and then you try again. When you have a failure in asking someone out, it doesn't mean that they will never, ever go out with you. But, you do have to be understanding and accepting as to why they won't go out with you at the present time or even forever. Things could change in the future though. At your age, relationships can be on and off again in an instant.

I would suggest always looking ahead for the next person to ask out. It's kind of the same as looking for a job. You have to find the one that is the right "fit" for you.

I am very curious about what you state in your signature, though. You say that

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I have a secret, I see dead people :O

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I am wondering why you think that? Perhaps it is something that you might consider elaborating on in a separate post as a discussion or even as a question? I am not doubting you, but only curious. I have also had experiences with the paranormal that I can't explain, but I know to be true.